I told her that I had checked the phone records and could see that they had texted each other thousands of times over the last few weeks, where are the messages? She then broke down and told me that they were chatting a lot about marital problems, as he was having a tough times as well. There were no texts from him at all on her phone. We've never kept our phones from each other. I said something along the lines of "What's gong on with Employee?" she said "what?" I asked her if she and Employee were texting each other a lot? She said no. I didn't want to freak out over nothing, so i finished getting ready, then woke her up and asked her about it. They were sent at all times during the day and night, including some after we went to bed last night. I found that her and an employee (33m) of ours, we own a business together, had exchanged nearly 2000 text messages in the last few weeks. This set off some red flags and I clicked on the link to see what was going on. That seemed crazy, as she is not the type that is glued to her phone. While logged into the usage I saw my wife had 3000+ text message this month. We've been going over on our data plan, so I logged into our cell account to see where we were at. In the past we've had a very active sex life, and I would never imagine her capable of it. However, one thing I never thought I would ever have to worry about was infidelity. I won't bore you with all the details but stress at work and stress at home has taken it's toll. Our first year of marriage has been tough. My wife and I have been together for 9 years, married for 1. Advice? Just trying to vent? I'll try to keep it as short as possible. If you are tempted to make an angry reply, use the report button instead.Use your experience to form advice but put yourself in the place of others as well.Be respectful to posters and other commenters.Crossposting content from here to another sub, including your own page.Advocating, suggesting or justifying violence.Do not use the sub to push your personal agenda.Do not post or request personal information that can be used to trace you.Avoid tangential discussions, focus on helping posters.Do not use uncivil, negatively gendered, ableist, sexist or bigoted language. The update needs to be about the solution. Link to the previous post, which cannot be deleted or removed.
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